can i avoid this..?

its been a long time since my last post i guess. and its pretty hard to even write down the title for this entry. oh well i am just lack of ideas i think. he he. but im pretty sure i got something that i want to know and getting responds from you guys. that is why i am still cont writing even without the topic till now sigh.

i am on daily trip by bus. committing myself to sks transportation from terminal one to klcc tower 2. my friend wrote an email for me with a subject of " untuk yang berjiwa kental". my seniors in the office keep asking me why on earth am i carrying my FOC umbrella (oh thanks to slb) everyday. and sharp 5 pm i will be the one who's shutting down my pc and waiting for the bus downstairs. and my answers will be"hari nak ujan, bas dah tunggu saya kt bwh tu.kalau balik lambat nanti jem,sbb bila ujan salu jalan jem. dr perjalanan saya sejam, terus jadi 2 jam". and the answer will keep repeating itself for the next next and upcoming days. when are they going to learn not to ask the same freaking thing so many times? blergh.

why should engagement come before akad? is this in the al-quran? or sunnah nabi? or its merely just a adat?custom that we cannot demolish right? okey mak apak aku mintak maap. but its just adat kan. and why did i see so many people suffered and still sufferring from the adat thinggy? they get engaged at first place, and after waiting in between for the kawin kebababommm something happened and at the end nothing. zero. where is the love? where is the happiness? oh scrap. i don't really agree with this. for me, marriage is a serious matter. and if i could recalll islam would like to have it in simple and harmony ceremony. so if you like merisik first, then bertunang then baru akad nikah, you waste  your superdupervaluable time, your money (hantaran la, majlis la,) and your energy. the thing is you can make it in one ceremony like terus la akad kan. nahh things are more easier. and its like thousand benefits from it, the most thing is jimat kan.

i am avery simple person but yet quite perfectionist. if i need to get through this thing i dont think i can do in such very gamble or selamber party.konfem meriah gilang gemilang aku buat eventhough it looks simple. korang paham ker? haha. anyway this is just barely my own thinking. if one day i need to go through this, then layankan je la kan. kalau tak terpaksa membujang sampai tua. haha

but for me, still things are meant to be simple in this world. akad je la terus kan snang!!!!!!  ;p

peace~

ok ape kaitan naik bas dan bertunang dan tiba2 emo pasal adat nie? haha.ok layankan aje.